What are we missing?
What does the Bible say about loneliness? How are we to handle it? How does Jesus satisfy the lonely soul?
Think about Naomi, a heroine in the book of Ruth. She lost her husband, her two sons and one of her two daughters-in-law, in one fell swoop of tragedy. She lived in a foreign land, had fled starvation and gone through bankruptcy. Her only support was one widowed daughter-in-law, with good looks but no skills.
Consider Sarah, the mother of faith. In the book of Genesis, her husband had an affair with her maid, and they had a son. Sarah was barren, until she was ninety years old. She spent much of her life as a nomad, living in tents, with sheep, on the outskirts of Sodom and Gomorrah.
What about Deborah? Judges 4 tells us that she was a judge and a mother to Israel. We’re not sure if she was married, but we know she went to war. She was the first female politician, and she sat all day under a palm tree, mediating for the people.
In the New Testament, Matthew chapter 8, Peter’s mother-in-law was healed of a fever by Jesus, but how did she cope with the complaints of her daughter, when Peter was off changing the world, and his wife and kids were left at home to carry on with the fishing business he left behind?
These women had plenty to keep them busy. They were all heroines of scripture. But they were lonely. I guarantee it.
Think for a minute. What about Noah? It was a lonely job to build a huge ship in the middle of the desert. Moses? Forty years in the wilderness tending sheep, and forty more years in the wilderness, tending ungrateful Israelites. Consider David, who spent twenty years hiding in caves from jealous King Saul. King Solomon? He pined for the Queen of Sheba. Elijah? Chased by Jezebel and hid under a tree. John the Baptist? A voice crying in the wilderness. Saul of Tarsus? He had a thorn in his side, that just wouldn’t go away.
Even Jesus said, …the Son of Man has no place even to lay his head. (Luke 9:58b NLT)
Wait, what? Jesus was lonely too? Yes. He was.
Let’s stop right there. If Jesus, Himself, was lonely when He was here walking this earth, what does that tell us? The Word of God says that Jesus was tempted in all points, just as we are (Hebrews 4:15b). Which means that He experienced the pain of loneliness, just as we do.
Loneliness is a part of the fallen, human condition, and we are all experiencing it, at some level, all the time. Yes, we are lonely. We are lonely because we’ve lost loved ones, or careers, or our youth, or our health. We are lonely, in prisons, in hospitals, in nursing homes, in our own homes, in offices, in schools, in crowds, in families, in marriages and in isolation. We are lonely in our minds, in our hearts, in our bodies and in our souls.
There is a reason for our loneliness. And there is a cure.
Listen to what God says in the book of Hebrews about Abraham and Sarah, and Isaac and Jacob:
All these people died still believing what God had promised them. They did not receive what was promised, but they saw it all from a distance and welcomed it. They agreed that they were foreigners and nomads here on earth.
Obviously people who say such things are looking forward to a country they can call their own. If they had longed for the country they came from, they could have gone back. But they were looking for a better place, a heavenly homeland. That is why God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them. (Hebrews 11:13-16 NLT)
Adam and Eve were exiled from their original home. Adam’s body, and Eve’s body, fashioned by God from Adam’s flesh, were made of the dust of the ground. God’s Word says, And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. (Genesis 2:7 KJV)
Humankind were originally made from the very ground of paradise, and formed in the likeness of God, Himself. We were intended to live in eternal fellowship with God, to enjoy a completely fulfilling relationship with Him and with each other, never to grow old, or become sick, or die, in a perfect world. And we lost it.
Adam and Eve were created “naked.” Which is not a commentary on the fact that they didn’t have to wear clothes, but rather that the first thing they noticed after they had sinned was that they were missing something. It wasn’t the lack of clothing that made them “naked,” it was the fact that the glory of God no longer covered them. They had lost their covering. They had lost God’s favor. They were naked, and uncovered and vulnerable.
Abraham and Sarah agreed that they were foreigners and nomads here on earth. Adam and Eve were exiled form their original home in paradise. You and I have a memory in our spirits and in our souls of another country. A better place. A heavenly homeland. It is not here, and it cannot be found here. It is elsewhere. It is another city, that God has prepared for us in eternity.
We are lonely, because we are missing someplace. We are lonely because we are longing for home, and this is not our home. We are foreigners and strangers on the earth. We are just passing through.
We are lonely because we are missing something. Our bodies were not originally designed to sicken, and age and die. We are missing the bodies that God designed for us. We are missing the covering of God’s glory. We are missing eternity.
We are lonely, because we are missing Someone. We were created for fellowship with God, face to face.
And they heard the voice of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God amongst the trees of the garden. And the Lord God called unto Adam, and said unto him, Where art thou? (Genesis 3:8-9)
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as I am also known. (1 Corinthians 13:11-12 KJV)
A Time to Celebrate
Sukkot – The Feast of Tabernacles – Tishri 15-22, 5779 – September 24-30, 2018
Sukkot is a celebration feast, a time for rejoicing and thanksgiving. We look back at how the Lord provided for the Israelites during the 40 years in the wilderness as they lived in temporary dwellings as well as the fact that the Word became flesh and tabernacled among us (as promised), and we beheld His glory, glory as of an only begotten of a father; full of grace and truth. ~John 1:14 We look forward to His millennial reign on earth when our temporary dwellings that we know as our fleshly bodies will be changed. And just as we have borne the likeness of the earthly man, so also we shall bear the likeness of the heavenly man. ~1 Corithians 15:49
Tradition as instructed by Adonai in Leviticus 23 includes making and living in temporary outdoor shelters/booths/tabernacles, waving the Lulav (see art above), singing, eating, dancing and celebrating the end of the harvest season. I cannot tell you enough what a fun holiday this is. Yeshua did celebrate this feast (John 7) and there is a theory that this is the true time of His birth. I would encourage you to research this for yourself.
Then it will be that all the nations who have come against Jerusalem (in the End Times) and survived will go up each year to worship the King, the Lord of Hosts, and to celebrate the Feast of Tabernacles. And it will happen that if any of the families of the earth do not go up to Jerusalem…then there will not be rain for them. ~Zechariah 14:16-17
One tradition that my small prayer group added to our celebration is watching a movie called “Ushpizin” about a sweet Jewish couple, Moshe and Malli and their Ushpizin/guests for Sukkot. It is fascinating to observe Jewish tradition and how it points to Yeshua even though they may not see it. We can also develop a love for the precious people the Lord longs to reveal Himself to and pray for the Shalom of Jerusalem. The movie is in Hebrew with subtitles but well worth watching and again each year. It can be rented on YouTube for $2.99 or you can watch it for free but the quality is not great.
On day eight, after Sukkot, Simchat Torah (rejoicing in the Law) begins. Jews as well as Messianic believers in Yeshua all over the world begin a one year cycle of weekly simultaneous study of Torah beginning with B’reshit (Genesis) 1. There is a link below if you are interested in following along including Brit Chadashah (New Testament) readings.
It’s Rosh Hashanah 5779 and September 11, 2018 at the same time! I searched my computer for this photo and found it in a file I had labeled, “Sad Summer”. That year, 2015, I had gone hiking by myself after losing my beloved husband to Glioblastoma, appropriately named, not just as a disease but an experience that slowly blasts away one’s brain. After my world turned upside down and the pace slowed to an agonizing empty gap, my time was spent questioning everything in my life including my salvation.
As I sought relief from the dark valley I was in, I learned to blow the shofar. And yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. ~Psalm 23:4 There is something healing and encouraging about blowing a shofar, especially up on a mountain top. I was reminded that I was not alone and that valleys and mountaintops come and go.
In this season, we can observe that the enemy has done a number on us. In our nation and in the world we are more divided than ever, many of our families are in shambles, the earth is quaking and groaning, and as I write, a massive hurricane bears down on the coast that could affect people that I care about. My flesh tells me to stock up on bread and milk and hunker down awhile in my comfort zone cave for a few months, but the Lord is calling out, “DON’T YOU DO THAT”, at least don’t stay there.
There are lives at stake; lost, broken, angry frustrated souls all around us who have been deceived into sin and unbelief who desperately need healing in truth and in love. So this sounding of the shofar is a battle cry to stand in the gap: PRAY, FAST, OBEY THE HOLY SPIRIT, LOVE, CONFRONT (if necessary), and by all means DO NOT GIVE UP! Again, if the trumpet sounds a muffled call, who will prepare for battle? ~1 Corinthians 14:8 And always be reminded, Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. ~Ephesians 6:12
Sounding Shofar: (note: my shofar blowing sounds more like a wailing cow. Praise Yahweh, this is not me.)
Then God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. And God saw that the light was good. Then He separated the light from the darkness. (Genesis 1:3-4 NLT)
This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine. (Harry Dixon Loes)
I was born in northern Indiana, about sixty miles south of Chicago, where the summers are blazing hot and the winters are brutally cold. At this time of year, in the autumn, the days get a little shorter, the angle of the light begins to shift against the trees, and the smell of school supplies is in the air. Pencils, and paper, and crayons and glue, and new jackets, and shoes that haven’t been scuffed just yet.
Abraham Lincoln was born in Kentucky, but from the age of seven, he lived in Spencer County, Indiana.* When I reach back into my early childhood, at the very bud of my academic career, one of the earliest memories I have is being taught about young and honest Abe, growing up in a one-room log cabin in the wild and woolly Indiana forest.
It wasn’t so much the politician, or the orator, or the beard, or the stovepipe hat that fired my imagination, although each of those things was impressive indeed. It was the picture that I had in my little girl’s mind of a long and lanky boy, sitting near a fire next to a wooden table, studying into a dark night, lit only by the stutter of the stub of a tallow candle, in a cabin buried in snow as deep as a man stands. The dim light from that little nub of a candle just stuck in my mind, because I’ve always been a reader. I can’t remember a time when I couldn’t read. I pictured young Abe, serious and studious, straining to see words on worn pages, lit only by the flame of a single candle. How much he wanted to read, and how much he yearned to learn and educate himself!
Now, of course, I am no longer young, and the little girl who loved to read has become the grandma, teaching her first granddaughter that the letter A says, A – like in Apple; not in the flickering light of a precious candle, but in the icy blue glow of an ipad. (Made by a company named Apple, of which Abe never dreamed.)
Here’s the thing…it wasn’t about the light that shone from that candle, that sat on a table, in a tiny cabin in the wide, wild wood that fired Abe Lincoln’s mind, and soul and spirit. Rather, it was the light that lived inside of him, and shone out of him, that ultimately illuminated a nation.
And it’s that same light, that has been passed from generation to generation, like the flame of a candle passed from hand-to-hand and wick-to-wick at a midnight service on Christmas Eve, that has shone in the hearts of men and women throughout the ages, who have been called by the purpose of God to reflect His light to a lost and broken world.
Jesus said, Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven. (Matthew 5:14-16 KJV)
* Lincoln Boyhood National Memorial, www.nps.gov/libo/index.htm
Yom Kippur – The Day of Atonement – Tishri 10, 5779 – September 19, 2018
There are 10 days that follow Rosh Hashanah, known as the 10 Days of Awe that lead into the most solemn day of the year, the climax of the 40 days of repentance and not really a feast at all, but a fast. Yom Kippur was the one day of the year when the high priest of Israel was allowed to enter the Holy of Holies, the most sacred part of the temple, to make atonement for the sins of the whole nation by a sacrifice in which the blood was sprinkled onto the mercy seat of the Ark of the Covenant. It was such a serious task that the high priest wore bells on the hem of his garment and a rope around his leg in case he died as his heart was not right before the Lord. Here we are soberly reminded of the Holiness of Yahweh.
The sacrifice consisted of 1 bull and 1 goat. There was a second goat called the Azazel (the scapegoat) that the high priest would lay hands on its head as he confessed all of the sins. Then the goat would be driven to die in the wilderness. We now know that Yeshua was the one time atonement for the sins of the whole world. Therefore since we have a high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are — yet he did not sin. Let us approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. ~Hebrews 4:14-16
Today fasting takes place a prayer of salvation for national Israel. And I will pour out on the house of David and the inhabitants of Jerusalem a spirit of grace and pleas for mercy, so that when they look on Me, on Him whom they have pierced, they shall mourn for Him as one mourns for an only child, and weep bitterly over Him as one weeps over a firstborn. ~Zechariah 12:10, John 19:37
More on Yom Kippur: helpful links
Praying for Israel on Yom Kippur:
Yeshua in Yom Kippur:
Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. (Colossians 4:6 KJV)
How do you season your speech? Are your words sweet, like honey, or spicy, like Tabasco? If you had to take them back, how would they taste? Would you be able to eat your own words, or would they be bitter to your belly?
How do we respond, when the words that we hear are as sharp and cutting as razors and when the voices all around us seem to always be raised against something, or someone, or some way of thinking or expressing who we are and what is most important to us, our families, our communities and our nations?
Vine’s Bible Dictionary of Words says that, “Being possessed of purifying, perpetuating and antiseptic qualities, ‘salt’ became emblematic of fidelity and friendship among eastern nations. To eat a person’s ‘salt’ [is] to share his hospitality…in Scripture it is an emblem of the covenant between God and His people…so when the Lord says, ‘Have salt in yourselves and be at peace with one another’ (Mark 9:50), in the Lord’s teaching it is also symbolic of that spiritual health and vigor essential to Christian virtue and counteractive of the corruption that is in the world.”
When the words that we hear, and even the words that we speak can cause wounds, how do we apply salt to those wounds for healing, rather than using words to cause further pain?
In the ancient world, salt was difficult to come by, necessary for life, and therefore extremely valuable. People who did their jobs well were said to be “worth their weight in salt” and people of high standing were seated “above the salt” at banquets, at the position of greatest authority.
James, the brother of Jesus, tells us that “the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, impartial and sincere” (James 3:15 ESV). The Word of God is compared to salt, to honey and to fresh-flowing, cleansing water. It is the wisdom from above, and it is the pearl of great price that is valuable beyond measure.
When we, as followers of Christ, apply the principles that we are taught by the Holy Spirit through the Word of God to every conversation and every situation that we encounter as we walk through this world day to day, and we let our speech be always with grace and seasoned with salt, then we will know how to answer every person, in every circumstance.
Regardless of the political climate that we find ourselves in – regardless of who is mayor, or governor, or senator, or president, or minister or king, the leadership of this world cannot be perfect, until the time when the King of kings and Lord of lords returns, to lift up all government upon His shoulders.
Therefore, rather than pointing fingers at each other, let us remember to point each other toward our Wonderful Counselor and the Shepherd of our Souls, Jesus Christ, so that we may, as far as it depends on us, live at peace with all people. The Sword of the Spirit is the Word of God, and our battle is not against flesh and blood, but with belief systems and attitudes that have not yet encountered the antiseptic and healing power of God’s Word, spoken by His Holy Spirit through His people, who we are, as His ambassadors on earth until He comes.
Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savor, wherewith shall it be salted? (Matthew 5:13a KJV)
Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making His appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. (2 Corinthians 5:20 ESV)